Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams.

DEAR CELEBRATE: I can’t see how family members who are invited to a child’s birthday party would be offended. If they want to attend, fine. If they can’t, so be it.

In a travel lounge or restaurant, what is the etiquette (of an offended party) if someone nearby is speaking really loudly, either into a phone or to others? — Daryl G., Arcata, California.

Just because someone was offended, it doesn’t mean you did something wrong. Her friend sounds immature. Let’s read some comments from Reddit and see what people think.

Her Mean Friend Loathed Her Cat, So She Decided To Not Invite Her Over For A Party. The Friend Got Offended, But Everyone Knows Not To Mess With Her Cat Now.

Harriette Cole: My mom and I are offended by the birthday party snub Plus: I dropped out, and now my sisters keep badgering me. Share this: Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) Facebook; ...